He would tell you, if I may speak in his place, not to crucify yourself on a shadow such as old resentment, or impossible loyalties.
8 seconds sound clip from the Ben-Hur (1959) movie soundboard.
You can hear this line at 03:12:16.752 in the Blu-ray version of the movie.
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[...]
- Rome destroyed Messala as surely as Rome has destroyed my family.
- We progress and mature by fault.
- Rome has said she is ready to join your life to hers in a great future.
- The voice, for instance, of Arrius waiting for you in Rome.
- Perfect freedom has no existence.
- I cross this floor in spoken friendship as I would speak to Arrius.
[...]