Why love if losing hurts so much?

3 seconds sound clip from the Shadowlands movie soundboard.

You can hear this line at 02:06:30.502 in the Blu-ray version of the movie.

Quote context

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- Well, I hadn't thought of it before like that, sir.

- No, nor had I.

- I suppose some people would say, We love to know we're not alone. Would you?

- Well, if you mean falling in love, well, I haven't really. I mean, I probably know more about love from books than from personal experience.

- Go on. I'm listening.

- Well, I don't think any of us want to be alone.

- Why love if losing hurts so much?

- I have no answers anymore, only the life I've lived.

- Twice in that life, I've been given the choice. As a boy, and as a man. The boy chose safety. The man chooses suffering.

- The pain now is part of the happiness then. That's the deal.

(DOG BARKING)

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