Actually, the hand that we've been dealt in life.
7 seconds sound clip from the Sling Blade (1996) movie soundboard.
You can hear this line at 00:57:08 in the Blu-ray version of the movie.
Quote context
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- My own family was never like a family. They're horrible people.
- As a matter of fact, for years I prayed every night that my father would die,
- But, you see, you and I are a lot alike, as strange as that may seem.
- I don't... I don't mean physically, or even mentally, really, but, well, emotionally.
- Actually, the hand that we've been dealt in life.
- We're different. People see us as being different, anyway.
- You're... well, you've got your affliction or whatever, and I... well, mine's not as easy to see.
- I'm just going to say it. I'm gay. Does that surprise you? That I'm gay?
- You know what gay is, don't you?
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