It's the double standard. The separate quarters, the deferential treatment.
8 seconds sound clip from the G.I. Jane movie soundboard.
You can hear this line at 00:43:55 in the Blu-ray version of the movie.
Quote context
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- All right, Lieutenant. I want names. I want specific grievances.
- Permission to speak frankly, sir? It's you, sir. It started the moment I came here.
- It's the double standard. The separate quarters, the deferential treatment.
- It's the way you practically pulled my chair out for me when we first met.
- Because I was civil, now you're complainin'?
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