No, that's not the way to put it.
3 seconds sound clip from the The Dictator (2012) movie soundboard.
You can hear this line at 01:03:32 in the Blu-ray version of the movie.
Quote context
[...]
- Everything to do with you! A lot of them wrote notes. In their suicide notes they named you by name!
- It's all a rumor. And you're being silly.
- Hello, gentlemen. How you doin'? Are you guys friends of the deceased?
- How do I put this? He was my nigger.
- No, that's not the way to put it.
- He was my negger. Nigger. Nagger?
[...]